There’s been a lot going on here in the last few months…
We’re pregnant! Tuesday will make 16 weeks, putting us into the second trimester and taking out us out of the major danger zone for miscarriages by a couple of weeks. Only three more weeks before we find out if we’re having a little boy or a second little girl! Hubby and I are doing our best to remain neutral on the subject, but Little Girl has no such reservations… She boldly states that she wants a sister and will be upset if we have a boy. 🙂 (I think she’ll make her peace with it by mid-August.)
We’re also moving house! Again! We don’t know completely when or where yet; we each have our hopes. Little Girl votes for Florida or “anywhere it doesn’t snow!” The novelty has worn off. Hubby votes for the west. I vote for the east coast since I’d love to be closer to his family. But it remains to be seen where we’ll actually end up this time. It’s sort of fun and exciting in it’s own way, but at the same time…I’m the type of person that wants to know what’s going on and to make plans.
I’ve changed up my school plans accordingly and am grateful that it actually gives me a bit of break while things settle down a bit, though, at the same time, the next several weeks are quite an intense course load due to taking half-semester classes. Little Girl started Girl Scouts and I’m up to my butt in cookies. Hubby is working more than ever. It’s been a wild ride in 2015 this far…
Weird things have given me anxiety lately. (I think it’s just my brain trying to find things that I can “do something” about since all I can do in regards to the baby and the move right now is to sit and wait.) I’d started to panic over the last handful of days; I can’t even wear my original yoga pants anymore. They’re too tight. Even Sean’s shirts are inching up over my belly. I’d walked through Meijer numerous times; no maternity section. WalMart no longer has a maternity section. I tried on regular women’s XL shirts…I just looked fat and felt horrible. Target gets $32 for a single pair of maternity jeans and the ones that I got from them last year are annoying; the elastic isn’t secured within the “pocket” that it’s in, so it always twists. It looks weird in that, “Don’t mind me, I’m just trying to steal something by shoving it into my pants.” sort of way and they tend to dig in if I can’t get it un-twisted enough.
I started to picture myself as the pregnant version of the “Honey Boo-Boo” mom; double chins and my belly drooping out of the bottom of my shirt.
So early this week I set out to browse some of the online sites and see what I could come up with. I hate buying clothes online. I have hips and that can be a huge issue with some designer/manufacturers. But I decided to take a couple gambles on WalMart.com, figuring that I could return them to the store if they didn’t work out. Today I ventured to the Old Navy store in the mall; they have a small maternity section and everything was 40% with some card holder perk thing they were doing. (I ended up hitting Kohl’s too and getting a few things from them on clearance. Kinda basic, around-the-house pieces from them, but still far better than opening the door for the FedEx guy looking like Honey Boo-Boo.)
My favorites so far are these tanks from Old Navy. I picked up two in the store and then went online and ordered two more because the sizes and colors were limited in the store. They’re comfy and will be nice and cool during the summer. I can’t wait for summer, so I may have tried these on and then stroked them lovingly while imagining them with cute sandals… It doesn’t hurt that they’re $10-$13 either!
And these jeans from WalMart.com. They just came in tonight and they fit amazingly well.
Last year’s adventures taught me that maternity clothes are a whole new circle of hell for clothes shopping; some brands stick with numbered sizes still while others do the S-M-L-XL theme. And then there are the normal variations in that what is a medium in one brand is another brand’s large and…you’re left kinda just wanting to slam your head into the fitting room wall while feeling like a beached whale. So…we’ll just say that I was apprehensive about whether or not these would fit. They fit awesomely in a large right now. Which is really when I need them…and I’m glad I’ve ordered some other items in XL sizes for this summer. But for $14? I’m in love and thinking about ordering another pair or two when everything else comes in and I have a better idea of what I need. (I know what I ordered, but I need it all in front of me to really have a good idea…if that makes any sense.)
I feel better; both in having “done” something and knowing that I’ll have more to wear in the coming months than just pajamas…with my belly starting to escape! 🙂 Now if only spring would get here!!